UNSPOKEN WORDS OF MOTHER'S SUFFERING

Being a medical doctor and a counsellor at Srishtilife has given me ample understanding about human emotions. This used to initially be the dynamism of the awareness programs that we conducted as part of Srishtilife and our endeavour to reach out to different cities and states. This resulted in me looking at child sex abuse cases every single day; day in and day out; and looking at the turbulence of emotions.

Looking at the pain, suffering and struggle of mothers has humbled me with humility and the realization of how helpless the mother of today is who is unable to understand the complexity of her own emotions. This has also given me, as a doctor, a deeper understanding of the complexity of the human mind and about our life today.

Many struggling mothers come to us.

Many mothers don't want the father to know......fear of their relationship at stake.

Many mothers don't want the school to know.......fear of child's future at stake.

Many mothers don't want anyone to know.......fear of their social reputation at stake 

They suffer in silence and keep their sufferings to themselves and don’t share this with a single soul. The mother has only pain. Pain because she lost the TRUST in her child. She has lost TRUST in herself as a mother. This is a guilt most mothers carry for a lifetime. They silently suffer the constant pain of not being able to forgive themselves, their child or the situation. The mother’s existence is slowly gnawed away by this pain. This sordid saga of suffering continues as an unending story. 

It makes me ponder when would we have a society where everyone could be free to express and empathize with our fellow human beings; thus connecting us all together as a single race.

There may be many mothers who may not know the intense suffering and guilt that a child can go through simply because the child ACCIDENTALLY TYPED SUNNY LEONE on the internet as she boldly markets herself as the most searched person for her PROFESSIONAL EXCELLENCE (in WHAT???) and your child innocently falls for her charm leading to an addiction to pornography on the internet..... the child will want to get out but may not know how.....

IF WE CAN THINK WHY........? HOW........? would be simple

MY UNSPOKEN WORDS OF SUFFERING.......
THIS CHRISTMAS MY DAUGHTER CLARA AND I DID NOT CELEBRATE........
SUNNY LEONE.... YOU UNKNOWINGLY  BROKE MY HOME......

MAY YOUR CHILD NOT SUFFER LIKE MY CHILD
--PRAYERS FROM CYNTHIA (A True Christian)

DR RAJESHWARI                                            

 (Names changed)