Wednesday 24 September 2014

LET OUR CHILD BE IN 47% AND SAFE .....ONLY WAY OUT IS TO EQUIP YOURSELF IF YOU LOVE YOUR CHILD


LET OUR CHILD BE IN 47% AND SAFE .....ONLY WAY OUT IS TO EQUIP YOURSELF IF YOU LOVE YOUR CHILD

·         BEING IN DENIAL THE ACCEPTED PHENOMENON.
·         BEING WEAK SUCH A STRONG PHENOMENON.
·         BEING  DISCONNECTED  THE LATEST CONNECTING PHENOMENON.
·         SHIFTING RESPONSIBILITY THE RESPONSIBLE PHENOMENON.


FOR ONCE DARE TO LOOK AT REALITY
·    THE CHILD SEX ABUSE OF INDIA BY WOMAN AND CHILD HEALTH IS 53%.....IT COULD BE MORE.
·         WE  ARE NOT EQUIPPED WITH KNOWLEDGE ON CHILD SEX ABUSE.
·         WE ARE TOO HESITANT TO SPEAK.
·         WE ARE IGNORANT WITH EVEN TEACHING THE NAME OF PRIVATE PART RESPONSIBLY.
FOOD FOR YOUR THOUGHT.
IF YOUR CHILD FALLS IN 53%......YOU NEED TO ADDRESS TO CURE YOUR CHILD
IF YOUR CHILD FALLS IN 47%......YOU NEED TO ADDRESS TO PREVENT ABUSE.
TODAY IS THE DAY ,WORK IT OUT OR IT WILL BE TOO LATE.
LET OUR CHILD BE IN 47% AND SAFE .....
ONLY WAY OUT IS TO EQUIP YOURSELF, IF YOU LOVE YOUR CHILD.

EXPERT
SRUSHTILIFE



Wednesday 17 September 2014

TALK TO THE CHILD ON SEXUALITY AND NOT SEX… THAT iS THE SOLUTION

TALK TO THE CHILD ON SEXUALITY AND NOT SEX…

THAT iS THE SOLUTION

A breather and an assurance to say we care for the future when media is partnering for the cause to see that the future of India is safe. An action, a path way to walk our children to safety in the chaos of the present scenario, where parents and teachers are grappling of what to say and how to say when abusers are grooming our children via technology( porn) .

Reasons for the chaos / crisis.

IRONIES :

1)      We hesitate to even utter the name “sex” in the name of culture,unspoken,its wrong,

….......
IRONY - Reality is that Abnormal sex (porn) is available for free in the bedroom and for a Ten Rupee as a download at cybercafé where the children hover and share among themselves.
2)      We donot talk on responsibility on sexuality.
IRONY - Abuser demonstrates sex as pleasurable, while we talk about dis ease. Abuser demonstrates abnormal Sex (porn) as pleasurable!
3)      We have no time for talking or even listening about Child Sex Abuse.
IRONY – Abuser or the Online perverts has all the time online with the child.
4)      We have confusion or argument on what to talk.
IRONY – Abuser or the Online perverts trains the child on how to act (abnormal sex) often using technology (porn)
5)      When we talk we talk on sex that provokes unnecessary curiosity and concern with the child.
IRONY – Abuser or the Online perverts talks on sexuality that comes with comfort and ease .Hence the child is receptive.

Abuser knows psychology of the child more than the Parent.
He acts with Negative Intelligence and we react with Emotions.
Intelligence always wins and the trophy is our children.
It is time for schools and parents to partner in responsibility rather than shift responsibility.
mail us for further understanding… sirshtilife@gmail.com
Expert
Srishti Life

Tuesday 16 September 2014

THE BEST GIFT YOU CAN GIVE YOUR CHILD IS RESPONSIBLE ADULTS.



PAVITHRA THE COMMITTED MOTHER

It was a beautiful drive early in the morning from Bangalore to Tirupattur a small town of Tamil Nadu. The dawn was at its beautiful best, it looked like the trees and plants with blossoms were just waking up to welcome the radiant glowing sun. We crossed Karnataka and entered Tamil Nadu. The sign board and the road demarcated the different state but not nature. l smiled and turned towards the window to breathe the wild fresh air that brushed through my hair. To my surprise there were bikers who were driving past us all so synchronized. We smiled and waved to them like little children.
      Pavithra was waiting for us at the village. A typical village like the one we see in a primary text book. A cow, hen with chicken, bullock cart, small temple, hay stacked and little children running behind our vehicle during their play. Pavithra had done our workshop (she had hypertension in her first pregnancy, delivered a preterm baby girl by cesarean and was now stressed about her second pregnancy). She received us with joy carrying her second son who was born healthy by normal delivery. Her smile expressed everything gratitude connect and commitment.
               There was a bigger surprise for us as we began the workshop on the responsibility of children. Every word in their local language Tamil and Neuropsychology in simple language to be understood. The magic of our work was splendid!! The response was profound. Senior teachers owned up on their responsibility, people came together for the cause. The owner of venue refused to take money as he felt that was how he would be contributing for the cause.
                In all this, our little 4 months old hero was in the hall for the whole day. The bubbly little one was laughing, happy, healthy and playful and was sleeping in comfort and safety in the laps of those women who loved him like their child simply because Pavithra had created her relationship with these women like sisters.
A true demonstration of what we say, "THE BEST GIFT YOU CAN GIVE YOUR CHILD IS RESPONSIBLE ADULTS."
                                             
  Well done Pavithra!!

NISHA


Wednesday 10 September 2014

A FULFILLING EXPERIENCE IN THE SCHOOL


The journey for us in the social service throws many challenges, however the joy of meeting like minded people “committed for the children” gives us a breather in this chaotic situation. With incidence of Child Sex Abuse rising and most of us unaware about what is happening, this subject only brings anxiety and fear.
Being at ST. Pauls School was an awesome experience. We liked the commitment. And the way teachers, Principal and the school Staff showed absolute integrity, also an unmatched smooth functioning with children, a true combination of brilliance with values.
A fulfilling day indeed, with an excellent completion when principal handed over a token of appreciation (Ganesha painting)
YOUR HOSPITALITY AND COFFEE WAS AWESOME
Like how your students say:
EAST OR WEST
ST PAULS IS THE BEST
TEACHERS KEEP IT UP: THE SOCIETY NEEDS TEACHERS LIKE YOU ALL  




Tuesday 9 September 2014

HE GAVE IN SOCIAL SERVICE TO RECIEVE IN PUBLIC SERVICE

We are back after our short break due to the health concern of our most special person and source of
 Srishti Life.
We invited Bujji Babu from Gollaprolu a remote town of East Godavari in Andhra. He visited us with his entire family (parents, Sister and her family with her children Poojitha (age Eleven) and Abhiram (age Seven).
Yes this is how in Srishtilife we Connect and hence create responsible individuals around us. It is important for everyone to own up responsibility for their children.“EVERY CHILD IS EVERYONE’S CHILD AND EVERY CHILD IS SAFE”.

He contributed his time in a most profound way towards a child and family who are our friends.
That difference that made a difference to that family. Bless you and the universe blesses you, in the small town of Andhra
Just to pick the newspaper to see his name is BOLD as the BOLD AND HONEST OFFICER. [It indeed takes a life time to get acknowledged by media]. 
We salute you INSPECTOR. "YES SIR":) we are coming to your town to create safety for your children, Parents to Partner rather than being irresponsible and being in DENIAL.
We bless the children of your family that they be safe.

SRISHTI TEAM


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Monday 1 September 2014