TALK TO THE CHILD ON SEXUALITY AND NOT SEX…
THAT iS THE SOLUTION
A breather and an assurance to say we care for the future when media is partnering for the cause to see that the future of India is safe. An action, a path way to walk our children to safety in the chaos of the present scenario, where parents and teachers are grappling of what to say and how to say when abusers are grooming our children via technology( porn) .
Reasons for the chaos / crisis.
IRONIES :
1) We hesitate to even utter the name “sex” in the name of culture,unspoken,its wrong,
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IRONY - Reality is that Abnormal sex (porn) is available for free in the bedroom and for a Ten Rupee as a download at cybercafé where the children hover and share among themselves.
2) We donot talk on responsibility on sexuality.
IRONY - Abuser demonstrates sex as pleasurable, while we talk about dis ease. Abuser demonstrates abnormal Sex (porn) as pleasurable!
3) We have no time for talking or even listening about Child Sex Abuse.
IRONY – Abuser or the Online perverts has all the time online with the child.
4) We have confusion or argument on what to talk.
IRONY – Abuser or the Online perverts trains the child on how to act (abnormal sex) often using technology (porn)
5) When we talk we talk on sex that provokes unnecessary curiosity and concern with the child.
IRONY – Abuser or the Online perverts talks on sexuality that comes with comfort and ease .Hence the child is receptive.
Abuser knows psychology of the child more than the Parent.
He acts with Negative Intelligence and we react with Emotions.
Intelligence always wins and the trophy is our children.
It is time for schools and parents to partner in responsibility rather than shift responsibility.
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